Asking people how they are just might make the difference in their day.
I wanted to post this earlier today, but as has been the case with me lately, life just got in the way today. But even though today has been designated as “World Hello Day,” it’s a concept that we should embrace daily.
Say hello to friends and strangers. Check on an elderly neighbor that lives alone. Smile at the lady checking you out at the grocery store. Take a minute to see how someone else is doing. Showing compassion and empathy will make our world a better place. Continue reading “World Hello Day”
In my professional career, I have never really been a specialist, but I do consider myself good at a variety of things. And so it is in my personal hobbies, I have various things I truly enjoy, but no one thing I have perfected. I dabble in writing this blog, photography, painting rocks, volunteering, and all these things I do give me joy, fulfillment, and serenity in my life and help me be the best version of me. I love finding inspiration in every day life!
“The meaning of life is to find your gift. The purpose of life is to give it away.”
~ Pablo Picasso
But one thing I have found that I both enjoy and am fairly good at is strategy development and plan execution. And so it is that I joined the board of a local non-profit last year, to help them succeed in fulfilling their mission, while helping to develop a strategic plan and stay focused on plan execution. This is the gift I have developed that I am able to give away. #lovewhatyoudo
“One person can make a difference, and every person should try.” – JFK
October 22nd was Make a Difference Day. “Since 1992, volunteers and communities have come together on Make A Difference Day with a single purpose: to improve the lives of others.” Now before you point out that I am a week late with this post, rest assured I know. However, last Saturday, on the actual day, I was volunteering for the Alliance of Technology and Women at their GreatMinds event.
“You must be the change you wish to see in the world.” Gandhi
GreatMinds stands for “Girls Reaching for Education About Technology and Moving in Directions for Success” and it is an outreach program to encourage young girls to learn about and pursue careers in STEM (Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math). This year the event was held at Southwest Airlines’ training center and gave young girls an opportunity to tour the facility and hear from some of their female employees. Now I did little more than help set up, hand out T-shirts and goody bags, talk to the girls during the exercises, and help clean up. But I myself was inspired by some of the speakers they had, as well as the girls. Continue reading “Make a Difference “
I attended the Women in Water luncheon last week at Texas Water, where Ft. Worth Mayor Betsy Price was the keynote speaker. She made two comments that stuck with me: “You have to give back to the community where you live” and “Being connected to the community helped shape my career” since that was ten days before “Garland Gives.” The “Garland Gives” day of community service demonstrates the central role of Garland’s leaders in building community vitality at every level. To read about the projects Leadership Garland Class 35 (#TheBESTClass) selected, visit the Garland Gives page.
We started planning for this day in November, 2015. Five months, various planning meetings and conference calls later, it is HERE! My intention was to blog for the past five months about this journey, but that didn’t happen. But I do intend to blog this week about our experiences and update the timeline along the way. Cheers!
Friday, April 22 – The three “Project Overall Directors” (AKA the Tri-PODs – Rockin’ Robert, Persistent Patricia, and Can-Do Cynthia) have a conference call (we like to call them “POD”-casts) to discuss possible rubber chickens. Right now we are facing the possibility of rain during most of next week and through the weekend, and not having enough volunteers to help move mulch at Jonathan’s Place. We have ordered the equivalent of 500 bags of mulch. The phrase “That’s a lot of mulch” is repeated no less than 10 times during the conversation. We are all slightly worried. That’s a lot of mulch!
Weather continues to be worrisome, as I receive an email from the Office of Emergency Management about the forecast for the week. #fingerscrossed #prayforsun I am now wondering: Will they deliver that much mulch in stormy weather? I text one of the other PODs so they can worry along with me….
Monday, April 25 (Updated at 9:23PM) – I submitted revised permit (yay me!) and then came across an old Dilbert cartoon that reminded me of this week. With the little skull representing our project day, and all of those risk factors (“rubber chickens”) pointing at a us like rain, too much mulch, not enough volunteers or wheel barrows, T-shirt orders, rain, headcount to order breakfast, rain. Doom and Gloom, I say! Yes, the thought of moving wet mulch in the rain is bringing out the nervous nelly in me. Plans are made to buy tarps to try to keep it dry upon delivery.
No blame will be placed here. Lessons will be learned. We succeed or fail as a TEAM and we choose not to fail. Weather is a factor beyond our control. We can choose how to respond. We decide to proceed as planned with breakfast as scheduled. A final Go/No-Go Decision will be made at 8:00 AM by each project manager on project day.
My day is spent at work, shooting off reminder emails to project leads, and trying to herd cats. I had two simple requests. Approximately 30 emails and 12 hours later, I have my answers. This day has worn me out. I feel my fibromyalgia may be trying to rear its ugly head. I do not have time for this right now. Get me through the next 10 days and then I will collapse.
Tuesday, April 26 – Relatively light day. The nightly conference call mainly consists of discussing how much breakfast to buy and the weather and possible bad weather plans. More doom and gloom. On the bright side, instead of a fibro-flare (or maybe in addition to) I feel like I am coming down with something. Please, not now. I am speaking tomorrow at a regional user group day. Our project day is Saturday. And our Austin trip is next week. One week and then I will collapse….
Wednesday, April 27 – I check in with my two project teams (New Beginning Center and Good Samaritans) to see if they need anything. These two teams are ROCK STARS I tell you. They are busy with prep work and have begun executing their plans. It is great to work with teams that are so well organized and have great attitudes. Rain or Shine, we are doing this! With a little humor and grace sprinkled in!
Sam is ready, rain or shine!
Michelle is getting the signs ready…
Thursday, April 28 – √Breakfast ordered. √Permit and DJ for Good Samaritans confirmed. Volunteers, including some of the Youth Leadership Garland team, have been busy emptying the food pantry into a POD so shelving rebuild can happen on Friday. √Mulch delivery at Salvation Army. [NOTE: Jonathan’s Place will have 3x this much mulch. So when we say, “That’s a lot of mulch!” we mean it. Yikes!]
10 cubic yards of mulch….more to come…
Sam is ready for anything!
√9PM conference call wrapped up and so far no rubber chickens. √Email reminders sent. √Time to rest…I was under the effects of antihistamines all day. Tomorrow will be busier. No rest for the weary!
Friday, April 29 – T-minus 24 hours! I wake up and set my alarm for tomorrow for 4:45AM, so I can get there to set up for breakfast. I receive more project emails. I send more project emails. I am still feeling the effects of the antihistamine I took yesterday morning. I am debating whether I give myself permission to take another day off from working out. Maybe if I work out the drugged effect will go away… I decide to suck it up.
On the schedule for today is √buying flip-flops for the kids at Jonathan’s Place, √dropping off professional clothing at New Beginning Center’s resale shop, √checking in at Salvation Army to get water donations dropped off and check on things for breakfast, √picking up canned food for Good Samaritan’s and √dropping those off, √printing signs and more details, √9 PM conference call. While I am out during the day, I monitor the progress over at Good Samaritan’s, which is the biggest project of the weekend. It has been a week-long effort and things are coming along nicely.
I come home and collapse. I work on signs and goodie bags for each project manager. They have removed rain from tomorrow’s forecast, so we will only be dealing with wet mulch to move and mud to till and plant in at the outdoor projects. “Yay!” to not working in the rain! It’s time to get some rest, because tomorrow is…
PROJECT DAY! – Less than 5 hours sleep and out of the house by 6:10AM to get breakfast set up. We had a great turn out, a few words from our Mayor and City Manager, and then it’s “off to the races”. Before I could get breakfast cleaned up, our first rubber chicken of the day. And off I go to Home Depot to try to get a new hose for a power washer. Overall the day was a success, all projects met their goals, finished early, and no blood was shed. There was even some dancing going on over at one of the projects. I will post the end products soon. Now, I rest….
Come back to see how the week unfolds, and tell me about the “rubber chickens” you have encountered this week.
“If you want to reach your goals…become intentional about your personal growth.” ~ Jim Rohn
Months before I watched Shonda Rhimes’ TED Talk on her year of saying “Yes,” I made my own decision to commit to my personal growth and development, and say “Yes” to me. For years I had wanted to go back to school and get my MBA, but with kids of my own to get through college, I didn’t see it happening anytime soon. College tuition is not what it was when I went to college back in the 80s. So last year when I had an opportunity to apply for a 9-month leadership program sponsored by a local Chamber of Commerce, I jumped at the chance. And little did I know at the first class I would literally be jumping….
The program starts with a two-day retreat where we get to know a little bit about each other…and ourselves, as we are challenged with team-building exercises like the Spider Web and ropes course. First thing at breakfast that morning, I was asked to stand up so the executive director could point out the T-shirt I was wearing. It was one from work with one of our mottoes, “Better together.” And as the program progressed, we have learned how much more of an impact we can make…together.
“If you want to go fast, go alone. If you want to go far, go together.” John Maxwell
One of the exercises was a simple game of catch in a circle of 35 people, which progressively introduces complications and distractions, such as tossing a rubber chicken instead of a tennis ball. The rubber chicken is supposed to simulate how in life we need to learn to deal with the unexpected things that come up. The retreat helped push me outside of my comfort zone to try new things. Throughout this experience, I have made friends, honed my leadership and teamwork skills, and discovered what I was capable of…sometimes in the most unusual ways.
When I finally got the nerve to start this blog, my plan was to blog about the class and community service project along the way. But my plans became slightly derailed with life’s little bumps in the road. I could easily be writing Part 2 of “When Life Happens” after the rubber chickens in my life the last few weeks, but I prefer to look on the bright side of things and focus on what lies ahead in the coming weeks.
“Life is best lived looking forward and looking up.” Richard Branson
What Lies Ahead
Leadership is about getting people to work together for towards a common goal. Our class wraps up with a trip to our State Capitol in May, but days before that we come together for a day of service called Garland Gives where we do projects for local non-profit agencies. Through the planning process we have learned how to work with non-profits to determine realistic and achievable projects we can accomplish in a day; we have learned to work together, push and help each other, step in and step up! In one week we will execute the months of planning.
We have several outdoor projects planned for next Saturday and the threat of rain in the long-range forecast. While I am excited to see how it all comes together, I am hoping that the rain doesn’t become our major “rubber chicken.” So stay tuned for the project recap from Leadership Garland Class 35 – The BEST Class! – and hearing about the impact we are able to make in our community.
“Leadership is about making others better as a result of your presence and making sure that impact last in your absence.” Sheryl Sandberg
Have you done something to make an impact in your community?