Letter Board No. 35

“Life doesn’t have to be perfect to be wonderful.”

I have had this quote in my office for a few weeks now and just haven’t found the time/energy/motivation to write anything. After 100+ days of quarantine, one cancelled vacation, getting birthday wishes from my husband on the wrong day, and rediscovering hobbies that make me happy, I have definitely discovered that life doesn’t have to be perfect to be wonderful. Sometimes you just have to make your own happiness and joy.

Here in Texas we are in the middle of week 15 of quarantine life as a result of the global pandemic, and things don’t look to change anytime soon. In fact, we are slightly back-tracking. And while we aren’t in total lock-down or quarantine mode anymore, I am still only working in the office 2-3 days per week, practicing all the things the health officials recommend you do (wear a mask, wash your hands, social distance, etc.) and keeping things like shopping to a bear minimum. #maskup

I have found that priorities in life have shifted. Things like regular haircuts and highlights just don’t seem as important anymore. Spending time with family (in-person or virtually) and focusing on my health, however, are. This has helped to minimize those flare-ups of fibromyalgia, as well as helped me lose a few unwanted pounds during these stressful times.

In addition to focusing on healthy food choices and extra walks outside, I have found ways to stay busy at home. Weeks back I realized I was practicing several of the hobbies I wrote about in Easy Hobbies for the Chronically Ill to occupy my time-puzzles, Netflix, and rock painting.

I have always wanted to be more creative since my job requires more analytical skills. I have dabbled in dance, photography, painting, and, well, writing/blogging. I put aside many of those things when my parents both became ill and I had to focus so much attention elsewhere. So it’s been great rediscovering old loves. I have given some of these rocks as gifts, hidden some to be found on my nature walks, and created a rock garden in the front yard. Still very much an amateur, I just enjoy the process of creating something unique or fun or inspirational.

I hope during these stressful times you are finding time and ways to practice self-care and doing something you enjoy doing. We should all have things in our lives that bring us joy. Life may not be perfect these days, but there’s no reason it still can’t be wonderful.

What have you been doing during quarantine to take care of yourself and stay busy?



Author: Cynthia, My Inspired Fibro Life

Wife. Mom. Fibrowarrior. Joy seeker. Picture taker. Coffee drinker. Blogging about living with fibromyalgia and finding inspiration in every day life. Welcome to My Inspired Fibro Life.

2 thoughts on “Letter Board No. 35”

  1. I’m sorry you’ve been having to deal with so much and quite a bit of emotional turmoil as well I would imagine. That realisation – that life doesn’t have to be perfect & in fact can often be pretty unpredictable and difficult – is a good one to come to, so please do remember it if you’re feeling overwhelmed. Find those things that you enjoy, take time out to focus on you. By the way, when is/was your birthday..??

    I wish I’d been using this time more wisely to refocus on old loves to try to rediscover joy in things I used to do, rather than always doing the to-do list. I need to change that. I love the rock garden and your designs are so cute! It’s lovely you can give some as gifts to spread the joy, too. Forget amateur, looks like you’re already quite the pro!

    Sending lots of hugs your way. Stay safe lovely.

    Caz xxxx

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